He’ll feel better about himself.
Most men are ashamed that they masturbate so often. This can be up to 15 times a week! Gross! But, they are slaves to their libido and can’t help themselves. It’s an addiction. Mostly it makes them feel
like little boys who can’t control themselves. Once he no longer is able to give into the temptation to masturbate, he’ll feel proud of his self-control and behave more like a grown-up man who releases his sexuality into his wife, instead of down the shower drain.
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The romance will come back into your relationship.
As long as he knows he can have sex with you any time he wants, there’s no reason for him to romance you. That’s why the romance stopped after you got married. By limiting his sexual access to you, you’ll essentially retrain him to be the romantic lover he was when you were still dating.
Can you relate? In the beginning when you were first married, it was exciting and fun to learn and explore the newness of your relationship with your husband. But as time goes by and the years pass, you get to know your husband very well and things can become predictable and routine. Believe it or not, but it can be the same for your husband. If you are feeling like the thrill has gone from your marriage, he probably does too. What’s a wife to do? Over 2 million couples have started to incorporate male chastity into their marriage to remedy this from happening. This means your husband wears a chastity device to ensure he keeps his focus on you and doesn’t take matters into his own hands. This is known as being in the “chastity lifestyle” or “in chastity.” Keep reading to see if this is something you might also like to try.
This familiarity and dare I say boredom can have a cancerous effect on your relationship. If you feel you have become detached from your husband because everyday life gets in the way, maybe you need to consider changing something to spice up and add spark to your marriage.
Chances are your husband is having these same feelings. It seems neither of you can figure out how to get connected again. In the early days of your relationship it was much easier. Then maybe kids came along or your careers turned hectic. Whatever the reason your schedules are not syncing up. When he is ON, your tired. You put him off and then he never comes back when your ready. You both miss an opportunity for quality time. When you do finally connect up, it seems routine and predictable. How boring can that be? Don’t think just because he got a release that it does not mean he is not feeling the same as you do. Please don’t take each other for granted. This relationship will not change unless you step up and change something. If you are not careful he will get frustrated and give you room, but eventually seek other means to scratch his itch. Unfortunately some marriages that are experiencing this in their relationship lead to increasing unhappiness and frustration. Ultimately, in the worst case scenario, it can lead directly to infidelity and divorce.
If this sounds a little to close to home, please do your marriage a favor and step out of your comfort zone. The ideas expressed on this blog are for wives to recapture the love and affection from your early days of marriage.
I am a wife and mother. My husband and I have been happily married over 18 years and we have two beautiful boys. I am in my early forties and I consider myself pretty straight-laced and some, if not most, might call me “vanilla,” if that is the correct word. I am a school teacher and go to church on Sundays. Once a month I get together with a group of my married girlfriends for a night of pokeno and girl time. So all in all, I lead a pretty regular life. I tell you this to emphasize the fact that I am about as “normal” as anyone you would think is normal. So having said that, I want to tell you about how I improved my relationship with my husband in a way that some might think is unconventional, but in reality and when it is put into practice, makes total sense and the results are proven. So make a promise to yourself, because you owe it to yourself and you deserve the best marriage you can have, that you will give it a chance before you make any judgments. I say this because I was right where you are and I almost missed out due to my preconceived notions.
So what can a wife do to solve these issues? Find out how millions of wives, “normal wives just like you,” are using male chastity to make their husband and marriage better.
It stops your husband from wasting his time and libido masturbating.
If you are married, all of your husband’s sexual energy should be directed at you. It should not be wasted on him touching himself and thinking about other women. As long as he can masturbate, he is psychologically cheating on you – and lying to you by default.
Many married couples find the concept of male chastity fun and exciting. This is particularly true if the husband is somewhat accommodating and humble or the wife is somewhat assertive. But, it’s not limited only to couples like that. In fact, it can benefit almost any heterosexual relationship.
Having your husband in chastity is not just fun and games – there are real benefits to the male chastity lifestyle.
Because the topic is so personal, often those interested fear ridicule and embarrassment so, many of their questions go unasked. Just check out a forum or two where someone dared to ask a question about male chastity… they are deemed a weirdo, whack job, pervert, or sicko. It is a personal choice in life, like anything else and can be discussed sensibly like anything else. That’s why I want to take some time to post about the top 10 benefits of male chastity – for those wives who are too shy to ask about keeping your husband under loving lock and key.
The 10 reasons will follow in the next 10 posts so please keep reading.